One Word 2018

I know many people have already posted about their One Word for 2018, but I've been pondering mine. What do I want for myself this year?

There is a lot about the world that we can't control. There are even things about ourselves we don't have absolute control over. How do we take charge of our lives and guide ourselves in the direction we want to go when so much is out of our hands?

I've been trying to not feel so anxious about, well, a lot of things. It's a struggle for me. The world is an unpredictable place. I'm lucky to live where I do and have the things that I do, but that doesn't mean that I don't feel that anxiety creeping over me.

On a personal level, I've been working on and off at the same job for a few years now. I could easily see myself doing this for a long time. The thing is, I'm not super pumped about this idea. It's not really where I want to be. So, what am I going to do about it? That is the question I am asking myself everyday.

That brings me to the word I chose.


Direction.

You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. -Dr Suess

First, I need to figure what direction I am going. I am the guy who'll decide where to go. Where is that?

If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading. -Lao Tzu

This is good advice for me. I don't want to end up where I am heading at this present time.


If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. -Henry David Thoreau

I like this one. I will advance confidently in the direction of my dreams. Thanks, Henry!

Direction feels like the right word to me. I can apply it to many parts of my life. Not just work related. I want to direct my health, and my creative life too. That's the plan. 

Did you choose One Word for 2018? 

Oh Hey, It's 2018! Here a Review: The Grave's a Fine and Private Place.

Well, I'm still here so I must have paid for my domain again this year. Oh and my blog turned 11 on January 6th. It's a pre-teen, guess. It will go through a growth spurt any day now.

So 2018. What is up with that? I've promised Goodreads I'd read 20 books which in the past would seem easy but now feels like a cautiously optimistic goal. I finished my first book of the year. And it was an audiobook. At least it's a start.


What did I read? The Grave's a  Fine and Private Place by Alan Bradley. It's a Flavia De Luce mystery. Flavia is back in England, WHERE SHE BELONGS, but for unhappy reasons. She and her family are trying to regroup after another tragedy. What better way than to take a vacation and find a body?
Flavia needs to put her super-sleuthing skills to the test to investigate the murder of three gossips in the local church, and to keep her sisters out of danger. But what could possibly connect the son of an executed killer, a far too canny police constable, a travelling circus, and the publican's mysteriously talented wife? -Goodreads
I was glad that Flavia returned to her old haunts, although this is still an out of town mystery. She again uses her chemistry knowledge to make sense of the baffling clues. We see more of the other characters inner lives as Flavia begins to mature into a more self-aware person. She is realizing that the people around her are more than just objects in her orbit.

The Grave's a Fine and Private Place feels like a reset, like it's setting up for the next chapter of Flavia's life. The mystery was kind of secondary, in my opinion. I figured out quite a bit before the end, which isn't what usually happens when I read these novels. It will be interesting to see where this series goes next.

As always, the book is narrated by Jayne Entwhistle.

I was given access to this review copy from Random House Audio via Volumes. All opinions are my own.


In other reading related news, I think I'm going to join Reading Rambo's Readalong of Looking Backwards by Edward Bellamy.

Published in 1888, Looking Backward is the story of a young 19th-century American who wakes up in the eve of the 21st century, in the year 2000. Guided by Dr. Leete, Julian finds out all there is to know about this new utopian society marveling at the invention of credit cards and ‘cable telephone.’ -Goodreads
That sounds... interesting. It's weird to read a book about the year 2000 written in 1888 in the year 2018. It might melt my brain. Also, it's weird to think of all the babies born that year are turning 18. What is time even?


Hopefully I'll be seeing you all again soon. In the year 2000...