Another Post. Plus The Grip of It, the Perils of Home Ownership

Hey gang! How's things? Good I hope. I hope you all kept your vision after the solar eclipse. There wasn't a lot to see here, but now I have an earworm for the rest of the year.



I'm going to get listy. Here's what's new.

On the Personal Front

I'm riding out the end of summer. It's actually been pretty good. I've been driving the girl around everywhere, but that's not so bad. We've been busy and I have to say we've had a better summer than some in the past. We're taking it day by day and not making big plans. She seems to be enjoying the season more than usual and I think it's because she's arguing with me less. (I'm knocking on all the wood.) I don't know about you, but I'm less inclined to want to drive someone and their friends to the beach after an hour long argument about nothing. Perhaps she's learning that keeping mama happy is to her own benefit.

At the Movies

I went to see Kidnap with a friend. It was fine. Halle Berry is an Oscar winning actress for a reason. She gives great face performance. Unfortunately, having her in Kidnap just highlighted the terribleness of the rest of the movie. There's a lot of overacting. And some of the lines...yeesh. But it was fun to watch her slam her seemingly indestructible Chrysler minivan into just about every surface she encounters. Who knew a minivan could outrun a Mustang GT?! Enjoy this one on Netflix in a couple of months.

Books? Yes.

I listened to The Grip of It by Jac Jemc. A Millennial couple moves from the city to a small town to avoid the husband's gambling problem because apparently they've never heard of the online gambling. They purchase a low rent Winchester Mystery House with weird hidden panels and funky vibes. I'm not sure of the reasoning here. "Hey Babe, want to live our own Shirley Jackson fantasy/nightmare?" They work on the fixer upper but not even The Property Brothers can save them from this real estate disaster. First, there are weird noises, items appear and disappear. Then they find themselves waking up in their neighbour's house with no memory of how they got there. Strange drawings appear on the walls and they feel they are losing their grip on reality.

I was really into The Grip of It at the beginning, but then I found that the happenings got repetitive. Some of the things that happened seemed pointless and I couldn't understand why this couple kept the things they did from each other. The husband's gambling problem didn't appear to have any real consequences other than moving to a nice little town. Oh the humanity. The ending was hurried and I didn't feel satisfied with how things were wrapped up. There were too many open endings.

How's Blogging Going?

There are over 1600 unopened messages in my blog gmail account. If you sent me one, I'm probably never going to find it. I'm thinking of just deleting everything in it unread. Sorry.

Warning: Blogging jargon ahead!

Google informs me that I'm supposed to install a SSL certificate on my blog for user security but since I have a custom domain Blogger won't let me. What a pain in the arse.


I don't have the energy to migrate my blog elsewhere. I find the whole thing annoying and it doesn't make me want to hop right back into blogging when I don't really understand what I'm supposed to do. I dunno. Anyone else dealing with this situation?

That's about it this week. See you all again soon!

A Possible New Format and a Look at The Home-Maker by Dorothy Canfield-Fisher

Hey, I just finished a book! Like, just finished it... moments ago. I figure I'll give a few thoughts on it while I'm sitting here listening to the rain.

The Home-Maker
The Home-Maker by Dorothy Canfield-Fisher
The Home Maker is a look at the home life of Eva and Lester Knapp. Lester hates his job at the
department store. Lucky for him, he's just been fired. Not so lucky for him is the fact that he has a wife and three children to provide for. Lester decides to take the George Bailey Solution, since he believes his family would be better off without him.

Eva is equally unhappy with their home situation. Not only is she frustrated with her husband's lack of ambition, but she finds that's she not cut out for child rearing. She can keep a beautiful home, cook a healthy meal, but the children confuse and frustrate her.

After Lester ends up bed ridden, Eva takes over Lester's role as bread winner. Surprisingly, she's good at it. Really, really good at it. She's never been happier. Lester too is suited to the life as a home-maker. The trouble is what will the neighbours and society make of this reversal of gender roles.

The Home-Maker was written in 1924 so it was pretty radical at the time. Men looking after the children? Women working outside the home? Scandalous! It does, however, still have relevance today. Women still do most of the house cleaning. And how many people have heard someone say a father was "babysitting" his own children? Lester remarks late in the book, "society is really based on a contempt for women's work in the home." Work is only valued when you can put a dollar value on it.

Although I enjoyed The Home-Maker most of the time, I found Lester's poetic musings aggravating. There tended to be tangents and flowery language that maybe didn't age well.

I'm glad I finally finished it so that I can move onto something new.



Speaking of home making, I've painted three rooms in my house since I finished working. I'm not sure when I'll be back to work again so I'm trying to do All The Things now. I'm happy with the results. A fresh coat of paint makes everything look new again. I got to tell you though, I'm painted out. I think I'm taking a paint break.

This might be my new format for reviews. I'm going to add them to random posts. Not exclusively book reviews.

Later!